Tried to Red Pill someone and all you got was name-calling and criticism?
I’ve been receiving a lot of DMs from people recounting situations in which their attempt to Red Pill someone has not gone well.
Who should you Red Pill? No one.
It is not your mission. It might be your genuine concern. Unless you establish degree of receptivity your effort could be met negatively.
Do not try to educate, enlighten, or explain anything related to all that falls under the Great Awakening.
Uninvited Red Pill attempts usually result in some kind of backlash.
Instead…Ask the person to elaborate on their opinion. Show interest. Learn what and how they think about the issue.
Ask the person if they would be interested in hearing your take on XYZ.
If they say NO that tells you all you need to know.
If they mutter, shrug, or agree without much enthusiasm, ask yourself why should you even make any attempt.
If they are non-committal, but willing to listen, start with questions. Would you like me to explain why some people view (subject/issue) as they do?
How do you decide who to offer your insights, perspective, or basic take on the current issue?
First, categorize the place the person sits in your life:
VIP, IMP, UIMP
VIP – People you care about AND with whom you want to maintain a healthy relationship.
(For the moment I am leaving out work relationships as they require different management strategies.)
IMP – People who are important but with whom you are not emotionally close. You enjoy their company. Could be the parents of your kids friends. Neighbors that you help out and have been there for you.
UIMP – People still hanging around in your life but add no value. Make the list. Make the decision to no longer expend emotional energy with this group.
You have a right to decide that continual interaction with anyone that falls in this group is not worth benefiting from your wisdom, care and concern, or your vast knowledge acquired through diligent research and your critical thinking.
Sometimes housecleaning includes who you welcomed in the past but their sell-by-date has expired.
You know what to do with things that have passed the sell-by-date.
You deserve and have the right to scrutinise who belongs in your life.
~T edit: And know it’s ok to purge if you need to.
Notes to Readers:
Actually, IMHO, it’s too late to try to Red Pill anyone, whether they be family, other relatives, friends, co-workers, acquaintances. Whatever is holding back some people from making the break from the known, gleaned from watching too much biased news reporting and propaganda… it isn’t your issue. It’s theirs. Whether it is fear or a sense of discomfort in being confronted with an opposing idea or argument, it’s the other person’s responsibility to handle the situation or not.
Having lived with a rather vehement Trump-hater for a few years (housemates) I learned to simply walk away from any “discussions” about politics or policies that usually ended up in loud mouthed rants. It wasn’t my place to attempt to correct or explain… I’m not a teacher, simply a retired person attempting to live in peace.
People get very defensive when presented with any notion that pokes a hole into their long-held beliefs. They will mindlessly lash out and in so doing act as a drain on your energy if you happen to be in the vicinity or the target of their misplaced ire and projection.
I’ve had emails from people who, due to circumstances, are living with a Trump-hating relative and what should they do questions.
There’s not much that you can do other than carefully delete certain topics of conversation altogether from daily living. Or, if you can delete the opportunity for these encounters to the bare minimum.
Eventually… events will force these individuals to either “see the light” or retreat into mental instability. I would venture to suggest they’re already there… the mental instability part, not having the ability to see beyond their accepted information, going into automatic denial or attack mode, having triggers that set off explosive reactions without real cause. Like a woman seeing a red MAGA hat on some guy’s head and going into a total uncontrollable 3 y.o. emotional tantrum. That is a classic example of mental and emotional instability.
If people ask you questions, answer them. Until then, observe. If you can remove these people from your life, do it. Sometimes they will remove you as they strive towards self-protection of their egoic structures. These are individuals who are not given to self-analysis. They function on very shallow stimuli and don’t do their own research, ask questions, or search for the connections and inner meanings. It’s not your responsibility to educate them.
Waking up means looking at things you thought were impossible without going crazy in the process. It takes courage. It takes discernment — knowing just how much you can handle at any one moment. It takes knowing yourself and going beyond former limits at your own pace. It is a self-driven process, one that can accelerate or not. You’re in control.
I don’t do a lot of personal research as I have a rather vivid imagination and can fill in the dots on my own when presented with rather disparate information. I find articles and pieces that might educate or enlighten but let the reader engage at their own pace, choosing what they want to see, what they can handle… And I don’t — at least I hope I don’t — push anyone to accept what I see as their own truth.
Being responsible for your own inner growth is spiritual maturity. Some people just aren’t ready for this stage of evolution. You can’t make them ready. It is up to them.
So… I don’t red pill people. Sometimes I will drop a couple of sentences about something I know to test the receptivity. If there’s resistance, the subject changes. I’ve done this for years with potential friends and acquaintances without them being much aware of who I am within. Few people have ever seen the real me in person; they only see what they are willing or able to see which is little… and totally dependent on their own ability to understand and accept themselves.
Ultimately, acceptance of the Red Pill means you’re ready to step into a new paradigm, ready to grow, ready to explore… even if the first explorations are rather daunting and scary. Some people just aren’t ready to make that move… until circumstances and events push them to the point of breaking… some will fail and others will go on.
The coming EBS is designed to break down, really crush, the resistance that has prevented some of the “sleepers” (I call them resisters) from waking up. As a result, there will be people who experience profound mental breakdowns or the stages of grief experienced when something or someone dies. It is literally the death of the ego… of everything you thought you were… an artificial construct that isn’t real… but you thought was real until shown otherwise. It will be brutal but necessary. Those who are awake need to be prepared to not judge, just to be present as these folks work through the emotional and mental detritus of their former beliefs. It’s a process I have undergone voluntarily multiple times…
And it’s called the Dark Night of the Soul. It’s the point of initiation when you are confronted with your own demons, something every initiate on the Path encounters. Eventually, the initiate realizes the demons are actually teachers. There are many teachers on the Path. The Red Pill stage is the process of being able to move through the fear and see Truth. We all go through it. Some learn, others don’t and then have to repeat the lesson until they do. This process can continue through LIFETIMES. In this lifetime, there is an acceleration of evolution, which is for the starseeds a remembrance of who and what they are. For all others, it is a stage of inner growth and development that is part of evolution. The acceleration emerges due to the transition from one age to another, from the Dark Ages of Kali to the Golden Age of Enlightenment. Before the transition can be completed, one must walk through the darkness of the beliefs that are falling away as this particular frequency level is being broken down. Everything false is exposed. What was once held as truth is found to be false. Only Truth will prevail, but first the consciousness has to be willing to look upon the light without fear, without blinking, without looking away. This takes inner strength, determination, focus, intent and courage. Only those souls who are ready will complete the passage. Be willing to let go of those who are not. They didn’t fail. They just need more time.
The time to Red Pill is over. Just be present, aware, and non-judgmental. Be the Light, the lighthouse on the hill that will guide those who have lingered too long in the dark towards the new dawn. Be the love and the helping hand these individuals will need when they can no longer ignore that the world is changing and changing fast.
Breathe, my lovelies… breathe.
Eliza Ayres
Sunny's Journal 